There are many times in our lives where we change our minds. Do we want tacos or a salad? Maybe just a taco salad? Do we want to go out with friends or lounge at home on the couch? Do we get the gray or the olive green tee? We make millions of choices every—single—day, and some of them we give absolutely no thought to. Other times, we sit there perplexed, as if we are trying to find the cure to world hunger (I wish!).
The thing is, why is it that we can make decisions and feel free to change our minds in these aspects of our lives, but when it comes to other aspects of our lives… you know the BIG ones (the ones that REALLY matter), we feel like once we have made a decision we are stuck? These big issues, like: our jobs, relationships and our future are the things we should feel the most freedom about changing our minds. These are things that shouldn’t be taken lightly. If we can put back a navy sneaker and go with a classic white sneaker instead, then damnit, we oughtta be able to say to ourselves “You know what… this career isn’t really a good fit for me.” and LEAVE! So, yeah… maybe we worked hard for that choice (student loans anyone?), but that doesn’t mean we are obligated to stay.
We would never tell someone in an abusive relationship that they should stay because “they have been in it for a while”, or that “they chose it”, or even that “maybe things will change” would we? Hell no!
So, think of it this way, if you made a decision you are no longer happy with— leave. End that abusive relationship and get out!
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